学校教育的终点不是让学生进入名牌大学，而是让他们成为全面发展的人，顺利完成学业、走向社会、有能力追求属于自己的理想人生。

The purpose of school education is not to allow students to enter famous schools, but to enable them to become well-rounded people, successfully complete their studies, be useful to society, and have the ability to pursue their own ideal life.

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附有家长升学干货心得，不容错过！

There are a parent"s words

at the end of this article, don"t miss it!

过去一个月，升学指导中心帮助12年级同学们进行了美国和香港的大学提前批申请，陆续开始递交英国大学的申请。12年级的同学们卯足了劲儿冲刺梦校，完成文书申请、面试辅导、材料提交……然而，升学规划是一个长期的过程。在深国预，导师及升学指导老师从学生9年级就开始介入，在不同阶段通过对学生进行观察、引导、规划，跟进教学资源配置组合，针对每个学生不同的特性实现个性化服务。

In the past month, the College Counseling Department helped Grade 12 students to apply for universities in the United States and Hong Kong in advance of deadlines and began to submit applications for universities in the UK. G12 students put all their energy into applying for their dream schools, submitting paperwork applications, accepting interview counseling, and completing material submissions... However, planning for further education is a long-term process. At SIFC, the counselor starts from G9, observes, guides, and plans students at different stages, and provides personalized services according to the different characteristics of each student.

| 深国预历届录取成果

Previous admission results

如果能站在生涯规划的高度，提前为学生做好升学规划，就是帮助学生在时代浪潮中抢占先机。在升学规划方面，深国预有哪些优势？

If you can stand at the height of career planning and plan for students to advance to higher education early on, it will help students stand out from the competition. What are the advantages of SIFC in College Counseling?

围绕升学规划的

个性化发展蓝图

Personalized service

from College Counseling

虽然重视世界一流名校的录取率，但深国预更加坚持“适合自己的大学才是最好的大学”的理念。深国预在这个理念之上，为学生建立起以升学指导为核心的学业及职业生涯路径，围绕着这个路径，合理、有效地配置教学资源。

Although we attach great importance to the admission rate of famous schools, SIFC insists on the concept that "The university that suits you is the best university". Based on this concept, SIFC has established a training model centered on further education planning for students, and rationally and effectively allocates teaching resources.

| 关于深国预升学规划

About SIFC College Counseling

教育没有统一的答案。在深国预，每位学生可以根据自己的个性和特点选择合适的成长路径——可供自主选择的美高、英高、艺术、创新课程四大课体系框架；校园活动、社团活动、公益活动等丰富的机会与平台；高含金量的学术竞赛与科研项目等，一步步地帮助他们完成自我探索，构建个性化成长蓝图。每个学生的兴趣和特长都应该被“看见”，这关乎他们未来的事业与人生。

There is no single answer in education. At SIFC, each student can choose the appropriate path according to their own personality and characteristics. AP, A-Level, Art, and innovation four curriculum systems; rich opportunities and platforms such as campus activities, club activities, and public welfare activities; high-quality academic competitions and research projects, etc. We help them complete self-exploration step by step and draw a personalized growth blueprint. Each student"s interests and strengths should be "seen", which is related to their future career and life.

1:15升学导师-学生比

学生充分获得关注度

1:15 counselor-student ratio

Students gain more attention

在深国预，升学导师-学生比高达1:15，是学生个性化成长最好的保障。

In SIFC, the counselor-student ratio is as high as 1:15, which is the best guarantee for the individualized growth of students.

升学导师会在一对一面谈中帮助学生确定升学方向并详细规划；每位同学的大学推荐信由两位科任老师及一位导师共同参与筹备；导师对学生的发展情况的密切关注更是贯穿始终，从学业规划、升学规划、职业规划多个方面入手，辅以学生心理辅导的综合咨询体系，建立有效的跟踪、反馈、复盘的闭环机制，用心关注学生成长，真正实现“个性化”，提升学生的目标感和幸福感。超高师生比下的个性化服务，便是学生们心底最大的安全感。

The counselor will help students determine the direction of further study and plan in detail during one-on-one consultation; two subject teachers and one counselor jointly participate in the preparation of each student"s university recommendation letter; the counselor"s attention to the student"s development is throughout: Starting from the aspects of further education planning, career planning, and academic planning, supplemented by a comprehensive consulting system of student psychological counseling, it pays attention to student growth, truly realizes personalized service, and enhances students" sense of purpose and happiness.

|毕业生为导师送花

Graduates send flowers

to his counselor

整合优质资源

开阔学生视野

Integrate high-quality resource

Broaden students" horizons

| 招生官在深国预宣讲

Admissions officers are doing

presentation for teschers and students

当视野足够开阔，才能做出最正确的选择。每学期，深国预会邀请众多名校招生官来访，帮助学生提前了解海外大学，制定更加合适的升学目标。过去一个月，深国预邀请了多位名校招生官，包括约翰斯·霍普金斯大学皮博迪音乐学院、美国康涅狄格大学、美国雪城大学、美国匹兹堡大学、SEG瑞士酒店管理集团旗下四所大学、澳洲悉尼大学、新南威尔士大学、西交利物浦大学等，通过线上与线下的宣讲，开阔学生视野，激发成长动力。

When the field of vision is wide enough, the most correct choice can be made. Every semester, SIFC invites many famous school admissions officers to visit and help students learn about overseas universities before applying and formulate more suitable goals for further studies. In the past month, SIFC has invited representatives from many famous schools, including Peabody Conservatory of Johns Hopkins University, University of Connecticut, Syracuse University, University of Pittsburgh, and four universities under SEG Swiss Hotel Management Group, Xi"an Jiaotong-Liverpool University, the University of Sydney in Australia, and the University of New South Wales, through online and offline lectures, they broaden students" horizons and stimulate their motivation.

当社会资源被整合进来，学校就注入了新鲜的血液。今年，深国预还成立了“学生个性化成长中心”，整合更多有价值的校内外资源供学生使用，帮助学生在申请中构建有竞争力的个人品牌，拓展出更多个性化升学的可能。

When social resources are integrated, the school takes on a new look. This year, SIFC also established the Student Holistic Development Consultation Center to integrate more valuable on-campus and off-campus resources for students to use, help students build a competitive personal brand in the application process, and expand more possibilities for personalized further education.

| 深国预学生个性化成长中心

Student Holistic Development Consultation Center

每一年的申请季，忙碌的不仅仅是学生和老师，还有一届届的家长们。家长既担心孩子，又不清楚应该怎么做，难免会因为诸多不确定性而心生不安。最后，让我们来倾听深国预3位家长的声音，希望他们的故事和经验，能帮助更多正在经历升学焦虑的家长朋友。

In the application season every year, not only students and teachers but also parents are busy. Parents are worried about their children and don"t know what to do. It is inevitable that there will be anxiety due to many uncertainties. Finally, let’s read the views of the 3 parents of SIFC, and hope that their stories and experiences can help more parents and friends who are experiencing anxiety about entering school.

Q1

如何避免家长焦虑，

有效助力孩子升学？

How to avoid parental anxiety

and effectively help children

in further education planning?

我是深国预12年级孩子的家长，孩子选择的是美高课程，美国大学方向，目前已完成ED1和EA轮的申请，并还在全力以赴地为RD轮的申请准备着。

I am the parent of a SIFC G12 child. My child chooses AP courses and wants to apply to universities in the United States. I have completed the ED1 and EA rounds of application. And he is still going all out to prepare for the RD round of applications.

从10年级开始，作为父母的我们就开始深入咨询、查找资讯，梳理各美国名校的录取条件，制定完备的学习计划，全力帮助孩子考入梦校。但父母再好的规划，孩子也不会按部就班地执行，因为他们尚且处在自我意识超强、贪玩、叛逆的青春期，他们甚至想要改变世界

Since G10, as parents, we have started to consult and search for information, sort out the admission requirements of famous American schools, formulate a complete study plan, and do our best to help our children get into their dream schools. But no matter how good the parent"s plan, the children will not implement it step by step.

时间越来越紧迫，孩子的任务一次又一次无法如期完成，父母陷入焦虑，慢慢地累积更多的负面情绪……我开始反思：作为长辈，我是否要先管理好自己的情绪呢？父母和子女的关系如此持续下去，是否会适得其反、恶性循环呢？因焦虑而引发的负面情绪，是否会以爱的名义蔓延到孩子身上呢？

Time is getting tighter, children"s tasks cannot be completed as scheduled, and parents fall into anxiety, and slowly accumulate more negative emotions... I began to reflect: As a parent, should I manage my emotions first? Will it be counterproductive if the relationship between parents and children continues in this way?

于是，我开始和孩子平等沟通，站在他的角度探讨他喜欢的话题。不再以指责的口吻训斥孩子，而是在逐渐升温的关系中，旁敲侧击、见缝插针地引导。了解他的真实想法，共同探讨升学目标和任务，让他从逻辑上清楚地知道目标和任务。而我也不再为他的升学感到焦虑，只是默默地和老师紧密配合，等待从量变到质变的飞跃。

So, I started to communicate with my child on an equal footing, discussing topics he likes. Instead of reprimanding children in an accusatory tone, guide them reasonably in the relationship that is gradually warming up. Understand his true thoughts, discuss the goals and tasks of further studies together, and let him know the goals and tasks logically and clearly. And I no longer feel anxious about his further education, but silently cooperate closely with the teacher, waiting for the leap from quantitative change to qualitative change.

终于，减轻压力之后，他学习反而更有乐趣了。作为父母，我们以不强求结果的心态，尽量不着痕迹地竭尽全力去推动和引导孩子完成任务，靠近目标。当然，也在时刻自我审视，控制情绪，让孩子感受到更多的温暖和支持。升学固然重要，但以和子女的关系产生隔膜甚至裂痕为代价，是得不偿失的。未来不可知，父母只要给予孩子足够的尊重和信任就好了。焦虑改变不了现实，只会让事情变得更糟。

Finally, after reducing the stress, he has more fun studying. As parents, we push and guide our children to complete tasks and get closer to their goals with the mentality of not forcing results. Of course, we are also constantly reflecting, controlling our emotions, and providing more warmth and support. Going to college is important, but it"s not worth it at the cost of a bad parent-child relationship. The future is unknown, parents just need to give their children enough respect and trust, because anxiety cannot change reality, it will only make things worse.

看，有时候孩子其实没有问题，只是我们做家长的过度焦虑。让我们放下焦虑，与孩子共同成长。

See, sometimes there"s nothing wrong with kids, it"s just our excessive anxiety as parents. Let us let go of our anxiety and grow together with our children.

Q2

各个阶段，

深国预导师及升学指导老师

为孩子提供了什么帮助？

What kind of help does

a SIFC counselor provide

for children in each stage?

青春期的孩子会有各种情绪的波动，甚至与老师发生冲突。刚来深国预时，孩子跟一位科任老师产生了矛盾。在导师的组织下，我们一家和傅院长、校长、任课老师进行2次面谈后，就把问题彻底解决了。孩子的心结解开，老师也更理解孩子。更庆幸的是，孩子跟那位老师成为了非常要好的朋友，还一起组建乐队，参演校园大型活动。在导师和老师的鼓励下，孩子越来越自信，九年级的时候还作为深国预优秀学生代表上台演讲。看到孩子从中收获、成长，我们也很开心。

Adolescent children will have various emotions and even conflicts with teachers. When he first came to SIFC, the child had a conflict with a subject teacher. After our family conducted two interviews with Principals, tutors, and subject teachers, the problem was completely resolved. What"s even more fortunate is that the child became very good friends with that teacher, and they even formed a band together and participated in campus activities. With the encouragement of tutors and teachers, the child became more and more confident. In G9, he even gave a speech as an outstanding student representative of SIFC. We are also very happy to see the children gain and grow from it.

十年级孩子有了新的导师兼升学指导老师，是现在的周老师。她像大姐姐一样关心着孩子们，有耐心，负责任，每次假期她都会根据孩子的情况给我们推荐适合的实践活动，为升学做准备。这次的升学文书是孩子独立完成，经周老师修改后孩子自己提交的。我们没有找机构，整个过程都是孩子在周老师的指导下完成。无论最后孩子是否能进入自己的梦校，我相信孩子在这个过程中已经收获了足够多。课业之余，孩子还在学校学生会任职，连续2年担任学生会宣传部部长，不仅变得更有责任感，“业务能力”也得到很大的提升。感谢深国预的老师们给予孩子成长的平台！有家国情怀的教育家傅院长，为学生创造平台的20年老校，一路陪伴孩子成长的老师，我们一直信任并感恩。

At G10, the child had a new counselor, Jean. She cares about the children like an elder sister, she is patient and responsible. Every holiday, she recommended suitable practical activities for us according to the child"s situation, so as to prepare for the university application. This time, the document application was completed by the child independently and submitted by the child himself after modification by Jean. We didn"t join any institution, and the whole process was completed by the children under the guidance of Jean. Regardless of whether the child can enter his dream school or not, I believe that the child has gained enough in the process. In addition to academic work, the child is still working in the student union of the school. He has served as the head of the announcements and marketing department of the student union for two years. Not only has he become more responsible, but his workability has also been greatly improved. Thanks to the teachers of SIFC for giving the children a platform to grow! Principal Fu, SIFC, all the teachers…… We have always trusted and are grateful.

Q3

在为孩子提供支持的过程中应该避免什么错误？

如何与老师和导师有效沟通？

What mistakes should be avoided in

the process of providing support for children?

How to communicate effectively

with the teacher and counselor?

我们家长要避免的错误太多太多，

归结起来我觉得有很重要的两点：

1.相信孩子不要小瞧他们

2.重视学校反馈，根据老师们的专业建议给到孩子相应的支持

There are too many mistakes that our parents have to avoid.

In summary, I think there are two very important points:

1. Believe in children and don"t underestimate them

2. Pay attention to school feedback, listen to teachers’ professional advice, and support children

深国预这个平台让孩子可以慢慢成长，去为自己人生的梦想做更多的探索。我们作为家长，要适当地放手，给孩子成长的空间。就像纪伯伦在诗歌《致孩子》中所说的那样：“他们通过你出生，却并非来自于你，虽然他们和你在一起，却不属于你。给他们你的爱，而不是你的思想，因为他们有自己的思想。”

SIFC allows children to grow up slowly and do more exploration for their dreams in life. As parents, we must let go appropriately and give our children room to grow. As Gibran said in the poem "On Children": " They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts."

很庆幸深国预的Serena导师、Winson老师以及其他科任老师和宿管老师们给我的帮助，有时候甚至到了晚上八九点，老师们还给我反馈孩子的情况并给出专业性建议。每次期中期末考试后参加一对一的家长会，各科目老师都不仅仅是和每位家长简单聊几句，都是有问必答、事无巨细、有疑必解的。除此之外，我们还能通过家长群、家委会活动、导师联络、邮件、PowerSchool系统等方式建立有效的家校沟通。因为选择所以相信。可能所有选择深国预的家长们也和我一样经历过迷茫，在艰难抉择后最终选择了深国预。选择这里是因为我们相信——相信学校、相信老师，相信自己，相信孩子们。每个孩子都是世界上独一无二的一朵花，只要我们耐心，就能静待花开！

I am very grateful for the help from SIFC counselor Serena, Winson and other subject teachers and dormitory teachers. Sometimes even at eight or nine in the evening, the teachers gave me feedback on the child"s situation and gave me professional advice. After each mid-term and final exam, we attend a one-on-one parent-teacher meeting. The teachers of each subject not only have a brief chat with each parent but also solve problems for the parents. In addition, we can also establish effective home-school communication through parent groups, parent committee activities, counselors, email, the PowerSchool system, etc. Believe because you choose. Maybe all the parents who chose SIFC also experienced confusion like me, and finally chose SIFC after difficult choices. We chose here because we believe - believe in the school, believe in the teachers, believe in ourselves, believe in the children. Every child is a unique flower in the world, as long as we are patient, we can wait for the flower to bloom!

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